Everyone goes through their own something (shit)

It's true everyone does go their own something and more often than not that something is shit, and I find that in NYC there are two types of people who handle it when it comes their way. People who are going through their own issues or shit have an attitude that they don't care at all about anyone's else's expect theirs. This type of person is selfish and will always be consumed with their own problems. Then their are the people who are going through something terrible and still find time to care, help and listen to others. I would like to say I am the later of these two people. Recently I was hit by a drunk driver in the meatpacking district downtown as I was crossing the street. I was hospitalized for a few days and in that time I received an overwhelming concern and support from friends, family and colleagues. It is in times like these you experience who truly is your friend and who truly cares about you and also those who aren't really your actual friends, at all. I know this is so obvious but it is also shocking. 

I am a girl who has gone through tragedies, overcame them and grown from these past experiences. Freak accidents happen everyday, it is part of life and there is no way to escape them. It is estimated in NYC that somewhere between 5-10 people get hit by a car everyday, that's a lot! Whether it be a pedestrian or cyclist, this city is busy, populous and accidents do happen everyday. I have learned through my recent accident that some of my friends who I thought were so close and caring for me (in NYC specifically) were not there when I needed it most. It's been barely over two weeks now and the emotional and physical impact still effects my everyday life. I have used this time to reflect many different things. Ultimately I have decided no matter what city you live in you there's different people and culture, and stereotypes hold true to some extent in most cases. NYC is known for being a fast paced and sometimes absurd city with rude people constantly on the go. After this accident some of my NYC friends have proven very true to this New Yorker attitude. I will always love New York and the city especially. I love the diversity but I don't always love all the people. After living here now for over a year and half I have finally been hurt by New Yorkers. Between cab drivers, servers, hospital staff and workers, there is always different types of people, in NYC being absurd and rude is just a part of being a New Yorker. I am extremely thankful for all the positive and power New York does provide. 

I love you New York, but right now it's a love hate relationship.  

A day at the Dream hotel

It's Tuesday in the end of July. The weather is perfect here in New York City, 77 and cloud free. My friend invited me over to the Dream hotel in downtown for a pool day. There are a few great pool spots in the city, like the Gansevoort on Park Avenue. We decided to go to the Dream hotel in Chelsea. The Dream looks a bit like a boat with circular windows that look like the side of a big cruise ship. The Dream hotel downtown is located on 16th Street and 9th Avenue next to the famous downtown Tao restaurant and lounge. The Dream has a rooftop nightclub, over 4 bars, 3 nice restaurants and a juice bar. It's a place to see and be seen, one of the trendiest places in the city. 

Above is a picture of the Dream pool. 

We arrived and straight away ordered some cocktails by the pool, strawberry field cocktails to be exact. Sipping strawberry field cocktails is truly a summer paradise with a blend of strawberry, lime, mint leaves and tequila and crushed ice.  This is was my first time ever going to the pool there and it was quiet lovely. It wasn't too packed and the vibe was cool and chic. Chill electronic music was playing and thin tall model like waitresses served the poolside guests. I went swimming, tanned and enjoyed some delicious cocktails. This is a hotel I would recommend tourists or anyone to go to if you are visiting the city this summer. You will really experience chic New York summer living. 

Chelsea meets Meatpacking, NYC

In downtown New York the hottest restaurants, nightclubs, lounges and people come to life at night. One of the best areas is where Chelsea meets Meatpacking on 16^th and 9th Ave., including the blocks below 16th. This is personally my favorite part of town during the warm summer nights. During the summer months it is a popular place for people to visit, relax, and party until late at night.

Recently, I went to the fairly new TAO downtown restaurant and lounge. It is an Asian fusion restaurant with an upbeat vibe and red and black Asian décor. It was packed and my sister and I got seated in the back.  For dinner we had an assortment of Asian dishes and sushi paired with the TAOtini, their twist on a martini. Delish! After we went over the Lounge potion and hung for a few. We left and went out into the summer night and walked around meatpacking. It was full of sound and people. If anyone is looking for a fun spot in NYC this summer I would highly recommend checking out this area. Attached below are two links listing activities and attractions in the Chelsea/Meatpacking area.  

1.Chelsea Nearby Attractions

I like this link because it has over twenty listings of restaurants, bars, lounges and attractions in the Chelsea/Meatpacking area.

2. Meatpacking District Attractions

This link I like because you can select specifically what you are searching for on the website. You can select any area of Manhattan and see free things to do, attractions, food and etc.

You won't be disappointed!